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Comment on LIFE: How To Date An Ambitious Girl by Adrienne

Adrienne — Sat, 07 Jan 2012 18:49:52 +0000

Reading the last three comments has me torn. I’m also what you could call an “ambitious woman.”

I do think the priorities of a woman need to be stated. As for me, I want to date and get married. It’s on my agenda – so that, for me would have to take precedence over how much I put into my work. Which would mean, allowing give and take – an essential relationship skill.

For another “ambitious girl” it might be different – if she just wants to date she should know that and act accordingly.

Love the site Nesha!

Comment on LIFE: How To Date An Ambitious Girl by LaSaundra

LaSaundra — Sat, 10 Dec 2011 17:29:27 +0000

I dont believe that a man has to adapt to a woman’s preferences, I just believe that ambitious women have a type that does not pertain to all men.

If you are an ambitious woman, you are probably the type of woman that knows what she want and is direct with attaining it. Your ambition probably evolved from your work ethics and it eventually carried on into your personal life. So it only makes sense that an ambitious woman seeks an ambitious man.

Although this post may look like it is demanding, for an ambitious girl, this is asking the least. An ambitious person in general is one is is eagerly desirous to attain something, so when dating, we kind of expect the man to basically act the same way. It’s like if you want me, act like it. So instead of the, “when are you free” let it be more like a “what are you doing Friday because I want to take you out.”

I honestly dont think ambitious girls ask for much. We honestly just like traditional manly men, the kind that take charge so that we don’t have to.

All the ambitious girl wants is a man that acts like a man so we can act like a lady. Put our highest heels on, have the hair flowing and make every other guy jealous of YOU!

Comment on LIFE: How To Date An Ambitious Girl by NESHA

NESHA — Thu, 08 Dec 2011 04:33:33 +0000

@Jayar– Thanks for commenting. Should spark a nice little discussion.

But you’re def right, this piece is aimed at women in their early twenties, hence why I say “girl”

Also the time thing could seem a bit off putting but didn’t mean it to be taken as so specific as in time blocks, but for the guy to have some basic idea of when he’d like to take the girl out in stead of making her decide based on “when she’s available”

Also girls in their twenties should be dating multiple guys and having fun. The article didn’t really say anything about how to get a boyfriend…

but either way SO glad to get the “opposing view” and for u taking the time to start this conversation. Im sure your comment will provoke a few responses. <3

Comment on LIFE: How To Date An Ambitious Girl by Jayar Moten

Jayar Moten — Thu, 08 Dec 2011 04:18:43 +0000

All in all it sounds like ambition leaves little time or interest in romance when I read this. I think the notion that a man has to adapt to an ambitious woman’s preferences are a bit pretentious and a great example of why so-called ambitious women are single.
I dunno, I probably would have agreed with this in my early twenties, but now, as i’m leaving my mid-twenties, it’s really about give and take. There are no real set-rules. I work two full-time jobs, freelance and have a decent personal project i’m working on yet i still find time to make a 30-minute call, or send a hello text message/e-mail.
Also, when are you free is not really a question of when you have a gap in your schedule. It’s more of an invitation that asks “when would you like to?” Trust me, I’m not free to begin with, so me asking might be the courtesy of adapting to your schedule instead of mines.
I think this is interesting. Younger ambitious women often share your sentiments, then they get older…and the achievement gap widens, compatible men have found that someone that makes them happy is easier to deal with than the
”demands” of dating an “ambitious” woman and you guys get left with scraps.
We truly need to let go of some of these rules and guidelines. As an ambitious man, my list is quite simple: Get me, capture my attention, and be beautiful. Those three are pretty difficult to conquer but in real life, at least i’m not saying, “Call me between, 6:30-6:45; be direct in telling me what you want and take time to google me.”

Sounds like a demanding woman who doesn’t really want a man, just wants to casually date.

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Shana J. — Mon, 31 Oct 2011 20:56:33 +0000

crazy everyone literally has big headphones. But I always thought they were so expensive. Thanks for the tip on these NESHA.

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Sat, 10 Sep 2011 23:52:32 +0000

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admin — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 04:06:11 +0000

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8:38 PM
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admin — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 03:58:56 +0000

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3:49 PM
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admin — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 03:53:39 +0000

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admin — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 03:52:30 +0000

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12:02 AM
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